Thursday, January 15, 2009

Life with a Three-Year-Old

Some new developments in our life...Kylie is 3 now and overnight it seems my life has drastically changed! No more quiet moments...if Kylie is awake, there is chatter going on. Here is what I read about this age recently:

"Your budding conversationalist loves to talk and sing. Lengthy verbal turn-taking is a hallmark of this age. He'll be able to answer simple questions and also ask questions of his own. Sometime he cares less about the answer than keeping the conversation going. "
I agree 100%. There is often no point to the questions she asks or to the comments she makes...it's just about keeping it going! Sometimes, despite the fact that I try to ignore the constant "Mama, Mama..." I snap back with a "What, Kylie?!" Not the most loving attitude, but it's the constant-ness of it that becomes a bit tiring. I love her so much and truth be told there are some really great things about all this verbal ability:
  • Kylie now clearly communicates love- she tells me she loves me in her heart and that because she loves me, she wants a kiss (because I told her her daddy and love each other and so we kiss. Of course, right!?)
  • Kylie tells us what she loves about each of us...she loves my hugs, she loves daddy's beard, etc
  • Kylie can also describe situations now...soon there will be no talking about things discreetly because she picks up on it
  • Kylie can sing songs from start to finish- I'm not talking Twinkle, Twinkle...I'm talking about long, adult songs on the radio!

Love my biggest girl, but life with a 3-year-old is way different...

By the way- Madeline is awesome! Nine months and so very sweet still. She needs me in a different way than Kylie ever has. Kylie loves to be with me, but Madeline NEEDS me emotionally. She is definitely a Mama's girl and she is all about being with only me. I can leave her with other people, but the second she hears my voice or sees me, she is no longer happy.

She can now stand up next to things (her bed) and hold herself in a standing position. She also does majorly great sitting. She has absolutely no interest in crawling or rolling to the other side of the room, but the pediatrician isn't worried and thinks, given her muscle control, that she will be one of those babies that goes straight to walking...although I think we can hold off another couple of months!